1. Butter someone up
Meaning: To be very nice to someone or praise them excessively, usually because you want them to do a favor for you.
Spanish Translation: Hacerle la barba / Adular / “Dobar” a alguien.
Partial Sentence Templates:
- “We should butter up the procurement manager before we…”
- “He’s been buttering up the CEO all week, hoping to…”
- “You don’t need to butter me up just to ask for…”
Personalized Context Questions:
- Is it common in your industry to butter up a client before discussing a contract renewal?
- Have you ever felt someone was trying to butter you up because they wanted a favor?
Synonym Swap Sentence: “He was flattering the director to get a lead on the new project.” — Now rewrite using “buttering up.”
YouGlish Link: https://youglish.com/pronounce/butter-you-up/english
2. Wear someone down
Meaning: To make someone gradually lose their energy or resistance so that they eventually agree to what you want.
Spanish Translation: Vencer por cansancio / Agotar la resistencia de alguien.
Partial Sentence Templates:
- “The legal team managed to wear down the opposition until…”
- “By constantly presenting new data, we eventually wore them down regarding…”
- “The client was stubborn, but we finally wore them down by…”
Personalized Context Questions:
- In a long negotiation, do you prefer to wear the other side down or find a quick compromise?
- What is a situation at work where you had to wear someone down to get an approval?
Synonym Swap Sentence: “We gradually weakened their resistance until they finally agreed to the settlement terms.” — Now rewrite using “wore them down.”
YouGlish Link: https://youglish.com/pronounce/wear-you-down/english
3. Twist someone’s arm
Meaning: To persuade or pressure someone to do something they are reluctant to do.
Spanish Translation: Presionar a alguien / Torcerle el brazo.
Partial Sentence Templates:
- “I didn’t want to go, but my boss twisted my arm because…”
- “We had to twist the supplier’s arm to get them to…”
- “You don’t have to twist my arm to get me to join the…”
Personalized Context Questions:
- When was the last time you had to twist someone’s arm to get a task completed on time?
- Has anyone ever successfully twisted your arm to attend a conference you didn’t like?
Synonym Swap Sentence: “We had to pressure the vendor to lower the shipping costs.” — Now rewrite using “twist the vendor’s arm.”
YouGlish Link: https://youglish.com/pronounce/twist-my-arm/english
4. Talk someone into / out of
Meaning: To persuade someone to do something (talk into) or to persuade them not to do something (talk out of).
Spanish Translation: Convencer a alguien de… / Disuadir a alguien de….
Partial Sentence Templates:
- “The sales team talked the client into signing a…”
- “I managed to talk him out of quitting his job by…”
- “Don’t let them talk you into accepting a deal that…”
Personalized Context Questions:
- Have you ever successfully talked a stakeholder out of a bad investment?
- Is it easier for you to talk someone into a new idea or talk them out of an old one?
Synonym Swap Sentence: “I persuaded him not to leave the company by offering a flexible schedule.” — Now rewrite using “talk him out of.”
YouGlish Link: https://youglish.com/pronounce/talk-you-into/english
5. Turn someone around
Meaning: To change someone’s opinion or attitude completely, usually from negative to positive.
Spanish Translation: Hacer cambiar de opinión / Hacer que alguien cambie de parecer.
Partial Sentence Templates:
- “They were against the merger, but the new proposal turned them around.”
- “It’s hard to turn around a frustrated client, but a…”
- “We hope this presentation will turn the investors around regarding…”
Personalized Context Questions:
- What is your best strategy for turning around a skeptical colleague during a presentation?
- Have you ever managed to turn around a project that everyone thought would fail?
Synonym Swap Sentence: “The new proposal completely changed their negative attitude toward the merger.” — Now rewrite using “turned them around.”
YouGlish Link: https://youglish.com/pronounce/turn-him-around/english
6. Win someone over
Meaning: To persuade someone to support you or agree with you, often by being charming or providing a good argument.
Spanish Translation: Ganarse a alguien.
Partial Sentence Templates:
- “It took several meetings, but our design finally won the board over.”
- “We promised to build a park to win over the…”
- “To get the promotion, she had to win the department over with…”
Personalized Context Questions:
- What kind of evidence do you find most effective to win someone over?
- In your experience, is it better to use logic or emotion to win someone over?
Synonym Swap Sentence: “Our innovative design finally persuaded the board to support us.” — Now rewrite using “won the board over.”
YouGlish Link: https://youglish.com/pronounce/win-me-over/english
7. Get through to (someone)
Meaning: To succeed in making someone understand or believe what you are saying, especially when they are being difficult.
Spanish Translation: Hacerse entender / Llegar a alguien.
Partial Sentence Templates:
- “I’ve tried explaining the risks, but I just can’t seem to get through to the…”
- “We finally got through to them once we showed them the…”
- “It’s frustrating when you can’t get through to a colleague who…”
Personalized Context Questions:
- Is there someone at work that you find particularly difficult to get through to?
- How do you change your approach when you realize you aren’t getting through to your audience?
Synonym Swap Sentence: “I finally made them understand after showing them the potential loss in revenue.” — Now rewrite using “got through to them.”
YouGlish Link: https://youglish.com/pronounce/get-through-to/english
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Business Reading & Dialogue Practice
A: Short Story The regional manager was initially very skeptical of the new remote work policy. To (1) __________ him, the HR team spent weeks (2) __________ him with compliments and positive data. When that wasn’t enough, they had to (3) __________ by showing how much overhead cost they would save. It took a long time to (4) __________ his resistance, but they finally (5) __________ him, and now he is the policy’s biggest supporter.
B: Dialogue Manager: “I heard you (6) __________ the client __________ the three-year contract!” Sales Rep: “Yes, it wasn’t easy. I really had to (7) __________ his __________ because he was worried about the long-term commitment.” Manager: “Great job. It’s often hard to (8) __________ someone who is that stubborn.”
C: Article Snippet In high-stakes negotiations, the ability to (9) __________ a skeptical audience is vital. Often, a presenter must (10) __________ the opposition by providing an overwhelming amount of evidence. If you can (11) __________ a negative mindset and turn it into support, you have mastered professional persuasion.
Challenging Fill-in-the-Blank
- I had to __________ my boss’s __________ to get him to approve my vacation during the busy season.
- Stop trying to __________ me __________; I’m still going to give you a tough performance review.
- The marketing team successfully __________ the board __________ with their new campaign idea.
- It is nearly impossible to __________ that manager; he just won’t listen to reason.
- We managed to __________ the investors __________ after showing them the updated revenue projections.
- The customer was angry, but a sincere apology helped __________ them __________.
- The negotiator tried to __________ the other side __________ by repeating the same demands for ten hours.
- I finally __________ him __________ taking the job by promising a higher salary.
Answer Key
Text Practice: (1) Win over, (2) Buttering up, (3) Twist his arm, (4) Wear down, (5) Turn around. (6) Talked… into, (7) Twist… arm, (8) Get through to. (9) Win over, (10) Wear down, (11) Turn around.
Fill-in-the-Blank:
- Twist… arm, 2. Butter… up, 3. Won… over, 4. Get through to, 5. Turn… around, 6. Turn… around, 7. Wear… down, 8. Talked… into.
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